Tuesday, 18 July 2023

Whether the son can compel mother to reside with her if she is claiming maintenance from him?

Learned counsel for the Petitioners vehemently

argues that: Petitioners being the appellants could not

have been made worse off in their own appeal; they do

not have sufficient means to pay the amount and they are

ready & willing to look after their mother and therefore,

she should be asked to join their home, leaving the place

of her daughters; the mother has claimed maintenance

only at the instigation of her daughters and thus the claim

lacks bona fide.

(v) The next contention of the Petitioners that they are

ready & willing to look after their mother and therefore

she should be directed to join them, is neither legally

sustainable nor factually desirable. This Court saw the

mother Smt.Venkatamma, who is absolutely illiterate and

who has a fragile health condition; she is aged about 84

years, as admitted in the Petition itself. Her eyesight is

considerably diminished. Law of marriage generally

provides for restitution of conjugal rights qua the deserting

spouse, is true. No law or ruling of the kind is cited at the

Bar that the unwilling parents can be forced to reside with

their children. Such a contention is incongruous and

abhorrent to our culture & tradition, to say the least.

(vi) Absolutely no material is produced by the Petitioners

to substantiate their allegation that the mother is being

manipulated by her daughters. It is not that the daughters

want any share in the family property. It is they who have

been looking after the mother abandoned by the sons.

But for them, she would have been on the streets. The

gestures shown by the daughters merits a deep

appreciation at the hands of this Court.

IN THE HIGH COURT OF KARNATAKA AT BENGALURU

WRIT PETITION NO. 13182 OF 2022 (GM-RES)

SRI. GOPAL  LATE YELLAIAH Vs  THE DEPUTY COMMISSIONER,

BEFORE

THE HON'BLE MR JUSTICE KRISHNA S DIXIT

DATED THIS THE 12TH DAY OF JULY, 2023

Petitioners being the sons of 3rd Respondent - mother

aged & ailing lady are knocking at the doors of Writ Court

for assailing the order dated 25.05.2022 passed by the 1st

Respondent-Deputy Commissioner and the order dated

22.05.2019 passed by the 2nd Respondent -Assistant

Commissioner respectively at Annexures-A & B. The

Assistant Commissioner has directed the Petitioners to pay

to their mother a monthly sum of Rs.5,000/- each.

However, the Deputy Commissioner has enhanced it to

Rs.10,000/-.

2. Learned counsel for the Petitioners vehemently

argues that: Petitioners being the appellants could not

have been made worse off in their own appeal; they do

not have sufficient means to pay the amount and they are

ready & willing to look after their mother and therefore,

she should be asked to join their home, leaving the place

of her daughters; the mother has claimed maintenance

only at the instigation of her daughters and thus the claim

lacks bona fide. Learned counsel hastily adds that, all

these aspects despite urgement having not been adverted

to, the impugned orders suffer from legal infirmities and

therefore, are liable to be voided.

3. Learned HCGP appearing for the official

Respondent Nos. 1 & 2 and the learned advocate

appearing for the mother of Petitioners vehemently oppose

the Petition making submission in justification of the

impugned orders and the reasons on which they have

been structured. Learned HCGP contends that the

impugned orders are the products of exercise of discretion

by the officials under a socio-welfare legislation namely

Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens

Act, 2007 and therefore the Writ Court exercising a limited

supervisory jurisdiction constitutionally vested under

Article 227 should abhor to undertake a deeper

examination in matters like this vide SADHANA LODH vs.

NATIONAL INSURANCE CO., LTD., (2003)3 SCC 524.

4. Having heard the learned counsel for the Petitioners

and having perused the petition papers, this Court declines

indulgence in the matter for the following reasons:

(i) The first submission of the Petitioners that appellants

cannot be worse off in their own appeal and therefore the

Appellate order is liable to be voided, is bit difficult to

countenance. Such a general proposition obtaining in the

realm of law of appeals is not invocable in cases arising

from socio-welfare legislations like 2007 Act, which is

enacted by the Parliament for protecting the interest of

senior citizens who are in a hapless position, as rightly

contended by learned HCGP. Such a traditional norm that

owes its origin to the jurisprudence of Colonial Era cannot

be readily invoked to defeat the intent of the statute. It

hardly needs to be stated that in effectuating the

Parliamentary intent, the authorities are also stakeholders

along with the parties to the lis. Had it not been so,

perhaps, other factors would have figured for

consideration.

(ii) The second submission of learned counsel for the

Petitioners that his clients do not have any means to pay

the amount directed in terms of impugned orders, is too

farfetched an argument and therefore, does not merit

countenance. Law, religion & custom mandate sons to

look after their parents, and more particularly aged

mother. Smrutikaaraas say: ‘rakshanti sthavire putra …’

nearly meaning that it is the duty of son to look after his

mother who is in the evening of her life. In an ancient

scripture of India entitled “Taittiriya Upaniá¹£ad”, it is said

that when a student on graduation is leaving the Gurukula

(school/college), the guru/teacher gives him the parting

message as under:

“May you be one for whom his mother is a Deva.

May you be one for whom his father is a Deva.

May you be one for whom a guest is a Deva.

May you be one for whom his teacher is a Deva.”

Similarly, the Brahmanda Purana says:

The above shloka nearly translates to: to neglect the

parents, particularly in their old age, when they become

weak and dependent and to cause anguish, is a heinous

act for which there is no atonement available. The

virtuous idea is that one should respect & serve one’s

parents, guests & gurus, before one worships the

Almighty. This has been the tradition of this land since

centuries. With no joy in heart, this Court observes that

nowadays, a section of youngsters is failing to look after

the aged & ailing parents and the number is swelling. This

is not a happy development.

(iii) The argument that Petitioners do not have means to

pay, is too poor a justification for not looking after the

aged & ailing mother, especially when it is not their case

that they are not able bodied or diseased. The first

Petitioner who is present before the Court and participated

in the proceedings, is hale & healthy; the second Petitioner

is not before the Court, is true; but it is not his case too

that he is weak & incapable of earning; if an able bodied

person is bound to maintain his dependent wife, there is

no reason why such a rule should not apply when it comes

to the case of a dependent mother. An argument to the

contra falls foul of law & religion, to which the Petitioners

belong.

(iv) The argument that Petitioners do not have means to

pay is liable to be rejected for yet another reason: the first

Petitioner on being specifically asked, admitted in the open

Court that he owns three shop premises and has been

receiving Rs.10,000/- by way of monthly rent. The

mother who too present in the Court along with daughters

at once retorts that the rental income is far more than

Rs.20,000/-. The Petitioners have not produced the rental

agreements to demonstrate their assertion. Added, they

have suppressed their rental income from the authorities

who have made the impugned orders. Such a culpable

conduct of the Petitioners disentitles them to any relief in

the equitable jurisdiction under Article 227 of the

Constitution, the other provision namely Article 226 having

been mindlessly employed in their pleadings.

(v) The next contention of the Petitioners that they are

ready & willing to look after their mother and therefore

she should be directed to join them, is neither legally

sustainable nor factually desirable. This Court saw the

mother Smt.Venkatamma, who is absolutely illiterate and

who has a fragile health condition; she is aged about 84

years, as admitted in the Petition itself. Her eyesight is

considerably diminished. Law of marriage generally

provides for restitution of conjugal rights qua the deserting

spouse, is true. No law or ruling of the kind is cited at the

Bar that the unwilling parents can be forced to reside with

their children. Such a contention is incongruous and

abhorrent to our culture & tradition, to say the least.

(vi) Absolutely no material is produced by the Petitioners

to substantiate their allegation that the mother is being

manipulated by her daughters. It is not that the daughters

want any share in the family property. It is they who have

been looking after the mother abandoned by the sons.

But for them, she would have been on the streets. The

gestures shown by the daughters merits a deep

appreciation at the hands of this Court.

(vii) The last contention of the Petitioners that the amount

of Rs.10,000/- is much on the higher side, is simply liable

to be rejected. We are living in an age when bread is

costlier than blood. Money is loosing its purchasing power;

days are proving very costly; a sum of Rs.10,000/- by any

measure can be said to be excess; in fact, such a sum falls

short of the ‘living wages’ of an unskilled workman. To

hold body & soul together, more than that sum is

necessary. However, this Court very reluctantly abstains

from revising it upwardly, there being no such prayer from

the side of mother.

In the above circumstances, this Writ Petition being

devoid of merits is liable to be rejected and accordingly it

is, with a cost of Rs.5,000/- which the Petitioners jointly

shall remit to the 3rd Respondent- mother within thirty

days, failing which they are liable to pay an additional levy

of Rs.100/- per day, if delay is brooked.

SD/-

JUDGE


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